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Brother – Thanksgiving is coming fast! And if we ever needed it, 2020 certainly qualifies as the year. Without debate, it’s time to hit a huge PAUSE button. In the middle of extraordinarily challenging days, we need to call out our blessings.

With health and safety precautions being what they are, perhaps your Thanksgiving day will look different in 2020 than in years past. But regardless of who and how many may be at your Thanksgiving table, as a Kingdom leader, I want to have you consider how you will lead well, serve well, and love well during your gathering with family and friends.

To that end, let me jumpstart your thinking by uploading some thoughts I share every year at this time with Rock Solid grads.

Question: Knowing that many of you will be the point person in your respective Thanksgiving gatherings, what’s your game plan for leveraging your leadership that day? How will you capitalize this day to focus on what matters most?

During or after your feast, what if you were to…

  • Tell a Stone Story (Joshua 4). Invite your loved ones to hear about this challenging season in your life, sharing with transparency and calling out how your faith-walk is deeper as a result.
  • Bring a photo from the family archives of someone who has passed on and reflect on how your family is different/better because of their legacy.
  • Tee up a provocative question that shifts the conversation from everyday talk to eternity talk. “During these unprecedented days, what have you been learning about your need for His presence in your life?”
  • Perhaps one of your guests is aging (and their presence at next year’s gathering is uncertain), so take some time to call out why you are thankful for this person.

May your initiative (that’s what leaders do) create space for the Spirit of God to visit with you and your loved ones in a way that moves your gathering to a holy, memorable Thanksgiving.

Post a comment below about your plans

Brothers – I’ve got some great news to share with you!

This month, Lead With Your Life welcomes Kevin Hoist to its ministry team, serving in a part-time role as Director of Key Initiatives. For the past few years, I have been asking the Lord to expand our impact by adding a next-generation leader to the team. And He has done just that! One of Kevin’s initial areas of focus will be to deepen the ongoing experience of Rock Solid grads, including RS Huddle Groups.

Many of you know Kevin, but for those who don’t here’s a great photo and a few brief words of introduction.

Kevin is second on the left. His energetic smile and adventuresome spirit so evident!

Kevin’s leadership has been significantly impacted by Lead With Your Life and in many ways it has been a catalyst for the expanded vision that has been instilled in him. He has been a Rock Solid coach for a number of years and will continue on with that, but is also excited to contributing to the organization in a more formalized partnership. The timing could only have been orchestrated by God.

After spending a successful 10 years at one of the top accounting/consulting firms in the country, Kevin has received confirmation that God is calling him to expand the vision for his talents and leadership. Kevin is a Kingdom leader whose passion is to invest in people, desiring for them to understand and step into their God-given potential. While he will ultimately expand this calling into multiple spaces, he is deeply excited for Lead With Your Life to be one of them.

Growing together for His purposes,

Signature Chuck

Kevin can be reached at Kevin@leadwithyourlife.com.

Brother,

Got a question: What is the least understood, too easily overlooked, yet most important thing about you?

Answer: Your soul.

This summer, along with a Zoom-full of Rock Solid grads, I took a five-week deep dive of discovery. I wanted to more fully understand the centrality of the soul in the life of a leader.

It was good.

Check that. It was life-changing.

While it would take pages to upload adequately the trek we took, I’d like to share a few things curated along the way.

  • Each of us crafted our own description of the soul. Here’s my take: The soul is the unseen operating system that serves to integrate and to provide meaning to all that I am and all that I do.
  • We read Soul Keeping. I HIGHLY recommend it. It will rock your world and expand your desire to live from a deep place of a centered and healthy soul. Check out these Book Notes to get a snapshot of what we processed.
  • We journaled every morning for 55 days, asking these two questions: First, Yesterday, my soul was most alive when… And second, Yesterday, my soul felt neglected or compromised when… It was VERY revealing. Try it. The take-home value is inestimable.
  • And we learned the value of REFLECTION—the deliberate process of considering a truth in the presence of God long enough that it deepens you or changes you. In our over-subscribed, easily-distracted world—not to mention an ever-elongating pandemic—this is a spiritual practice that is largely forgotten…to our peril.

I could go on. But let me stop and leave you with a challenge:
Believing that your soul is the most important thing about you,
what will you do today to cultivate and care for it?

Reflect on it. Write it down. Get a game plan in place on how you are going to intentionally be the keeper of your soul.

“Father, as leaders who are committed to being rock solid on the inside and dangerous for the Kingdom on the outside, grant us fresh eyes to see how to attend more fully to the most important thing about us—the state of our soul. In Your powerful name, Jesus, we ask this. Amen.”

Then Jesus said to his disciples,
“If any of you wants to be my follower,
you must give up your own way, take up your cross, and follow me.
If you try to hang on to your life, you will lose it.
But if you give up your life for my sake, you will save it.
And what do you benefit if you gain the whole world
but lose your own soul?
Is anything worth more than your soul?
—Matthew 16:24-26 NLT

Rock Solid Leaders:

The other day I was reading a post and immediately knew I wanted to share it with you, my Rock Solid brothers.

The title of the post is 25 Random Pieces of Advice for Leaders in their 20s-30s-40s. It is written by Carey Nieuwhof. While his audience tips in the direction of leaders in vocational ministry, his counsel is solidly for all of us (including those who live north of 20-30-40 😉).

Here are a few of my top-picks from this write:

1. DEAL WITH YOUR ISSUES EARLY
You have issues. Everyone does.

As tempting as it is to believe otherwise, it’s not your wife, husband, kids or job who are causing all the pain in your life. You are the common denominator in everything that’s happened to you. So deal with you.

Go see a trained Christian counselor. Hire a coach. Read some books. Do what it takes to deal with your junk.

4. STUDY AND PRACTICE FAITHFULNESS
Faithfulness is rare. Not just in marriage, but also in life.

Culture teaches us to dispose of anything or anyone we don’t like.

So do the opposite.

Learn how to be consistent, loyal, and steadfast, holding to what you know is right even when you feel like doing the opposite.

7. CHOOSE A FEW AWESOME FRIENDS AND STICK WITH THEM
Friendships can be confusing in your 20s, 30s, and 40s. Friendship circles change when you leave school, get married and even change jobs.

In the midst of all that change, find a few friends, and stick with them for life.

Most people can only handle 5 really close relationships in their life. Choose those 5 well and build into those relationships deeply.

10. RELENTLESSLY PURSUE SELF-AWARENESS
Self-aware people make the best leaders and frankly, are the easiest people to hang out with in life. Chances are your favourite people are people who are deeply self-aware.

But self-awareness doesn’t come naturally. I’m naturally blind to the impact I have on other people around me.  So are you. If you want more on this issue, here are 4 things self-aware leaders know that others don’t.

13. GET COMFORTABLE WITH SOLITUDE
Solitude is a thoughtful leader’s best friend. It also is a key to self-awareness.

If you really want to grow as a person and as a leader, and grow in your relationship with God, get comfortable with solitude. 


17. DON’T GIVE INTO STUPID TEMPTATIONS THAT WILL COME YOUR WAY
You will be tempted to do stupid things. Don’t.

Don’t have an affair, take short cuts or cheat to get ahead.

It’s so not worth it.

20. WORK TWICE AS HARD ON YOUR CHARACTER AS YOU DO ON YOUR COMPETENCY
Competency is not the main key to success. Character is.

Your competency will take you only as far as your character can sustain you.

23. BOOK APPOINTMENTS WITH YOURSELF
Your calendar will naturally fill up with urgent things other people believe are important.

And you will watch a decade or more pass by without doing anything really significant.

Book appointments with yourself to do what really matters, whether that’s taking a day off, being with your family, writing an important talk, or taking time to think.

Then when someone asks you if you’re busy, you can truthfully say “I’d love to help, but I have a commitment.”

Good stuff, huh? 
 
My CHALLENGE to you my Rock Solid brother: Calendar some one/one time alone with the Father. In the spirit of Psalm 139:23-24, ask Him to reveal to you which of these words of advice was written just for you.
 
You see, at the end of the day, leading well is simply identifying your NEXT FAITHFUL STEP of following the One, the only One, worth following.
 
Let’s go!

 

Signature Chuck

Brothers, Allow me to share my heavy heart…

Like you, I’ve been trying to take in all the swirling events of these unprecedented days. Reflect. Understand. Pray. In that effort, for me personally, I need to write. I trust that my thoughts and reflections will serve you as you do the same.

There is no debate that our country is in a desperate place. Daily we are reminded of the deeply-seated, long-standing evils of racism, of injustice, of inequality. As you know, Lead With Your Life is an organization commissioned by God to equip Kingdom leaders. As such, we stand in heart and in spirit with all who cry out for God’s healing, restoration, forgiveness, and righteousness.

I mourn with my brothers and sisters who face the sins of racism and injustice and who live in fear as a part of their daily experience…and boldly declare that this is wrong, that it grieves the heart of God, and that it cannot, it must not continue.

At this pivotal moment in history, I want to share several things that are serving as anchors to my soul during these tumultuous times…and I trust they will do the same for you.

  • The Scriptures serves as my guide and authority and tells me unequivocally that every person is created in the image of God.
  • My highest calling as a follower of Christ is to love God and to love my neighbor.
  • While affirming that all lives have inherent worth, given this significant moment in history, against the backdrop of the long-standing evils of racism, it must be said with all clarity and certainty that the lives of all African Americans are precious and of infinite worth.
  • Any and all privileges a person possesses are to be seen and leveraged as a sacred stewardship for the benefit and blessing of others.
  • A calling and a burden to raise up leaders who relentlessly seek God’s will on earth as it is in heaven.
  • That lasting change concerning the prevailing evils of our day ultimately happens when a heart is transformed by and through a saving, redemptive relationship with Jesus Christ.

Finally, Brother, as a Rock Solid alum, we have called ourselves to be leaders who are rock solid on the inside and dangerous/courageous for the Kingdom on the outside. To that end, in that spirit, and in recognition of these days, I ask you the question that I ask myself: What does Kingdom courage look like…today…for me? Take that question to the prayer closet. Lean in. Listen. Discern.

And then show up strong…for everyone bears the Imago Dei.

…the Lord has told you what is good,
and this is what He requires of you:
to do what is right, to love mercy,
and to walk humbly with your God.
—Micah 6:8 NLT

Signature Chuck

Rock Solid Brothers,

Like yours, my heart is undone, overwhelmed.

Anger.  Grief.  Confusion.  For starters…

For me, the unprecedented days of the coronavirus have been eclipsed by the brutal and evil deaths of Ahmaud Arbery and George Floyd.

My heart is broken. For Ahmaud’s and George’s loved ones who will never again sit down over a meal to laugh and love and cry together. For my black friends who received yet another reminder that they live with a risk many of us will never know. For a nation that is a mixture of good and evil, of respect and prejudice, of heroes and devils.

Yes, my heart is broken. And I need to sit in that brokenness. Let it sink in—deeply. And with the psalmist, lament “How long, O Lord, how long?”

And with words that feel so inadequate, I say to my black brothers…

You are my friend. You are my brother. We are one—bonded in and by the blood of the living Christ. I love you. I stand with you. I lock arms with you in fighting for the justice owed to you—to every bearer of the Imago Dei. I commit to understanding more deeply what it’s like to walk in your shoes. I am on my knees asking our Father that His kingdom would come…that His will would be done…on earth, as it is in heaven.

This is the cry of my heart…

Signature Chuck

 

Rock Solid Brothers,

Like you, given these days of DON’T ROAM-STAY HOME, my weekly worship has shifted from in-person to online. In a recent remote time of ‘corporate’ worship, the song Ancient Words was sung.

And it moved me deeply. To tears.

The words reached out and gripped my heart…

Ancient words,
Ever true,
Changing me,
Changing you.

Not fully sure why it hit me so hard. I guess I was caught up in the overwhelming and humbling reality that God has faithfully and graciously (and patiently) used the truth of His Word to make me different.

I was undone by the thought of where I would be…who I would be, save the transforming work of His Word in my life.

No doubt, I’ve got a long way to go. But I am forever grateful that God placed my feet on the solid rock of His truth.

In the most significant sermon ever preached—in-person or online—Jesus places it all into perspective:
These words I speak to you are not incidental additions to your life, homeowner improvements to your standard of living. They are foundational words, words to build a life on. If you work these words into your life, you are like a smart carpenter who built his house on solid rock. Rain poured down, the river flooded, a tornado hit—but nothing moved that house. It was fixed to the rock. —Matthew 7:24-25 MSG

Brother, during these unprecedented days, let’s lean into and build upon these “foundational words.”

And let’s guide our loved ones to do the same.

I love you, Brother.

Signature Chuck

 

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